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10. We’re Not Prepared
We are often unprepared to commit, sacrifice, and love unconditionally. We don’t want to wait, we need to have everything at once.
We don’t allow our feelings to grow, often putting a “time limit” on what we think we should be feeling and when instead.
9. We Confuse Love With Other Feelings
Often times, we want to find someone to join us at the movies or at a nightclub, not someone who can understand and support us in a moment of deep sadness.
We do not like to lead a boring life and therefore we look for a happy companion who can turn our life into an adventure.
But we are not always ready for the changes, which inevitably happen after a certain period of romantic and mutual affection.
8. We Get Stuck In A Rut
After a while, we don’t have time or space for love, because we are too busy pursuing material benefits.
7. We’re Waiting For An Immediate Result
When we fall in love, we already want our relationships to mature. However, that maturity, as well as mutual understanding, can only come after spending years together.
Most people today think that there is nothing in this life worth their time and patience, even love.
6. We Prefer To Waste Our Strength
Many of us would probably rather spend an hour with a hundred different people than a day with just one. Today there is an opinion that it is much better to meet people than to get to know them.
We are greedy and we want everything at once. We start relationships and end them as soon as we find a “better” variant.
We don’t give the best to a person, but we want them to be perfect. We hang out with a lot of people, but we hardly give anyone a chance.
5. We Become Dependant On Technology
Technology has brought us together. We are so close that sometimes it seems hard to breathe. In many cases, text messages, voice messages, chats, and video calls have replaced face-to-face communication.
We no longer need to spend time together. We already know a lot about each other. We have nothing to talk about.
4. We Can’t Stay In One Place For Long
We think we weren’t made for relationships, and even the idea of settling down scares us. We no longer dedicate our lives to one person and avoid everything that is permanent.
3. We Become ‘sexually Liberated.’
Our generation has divided sex from love. People first have sex and then decide if they want to be together.
Today, sex outside of marriage is normal and things like “open relationships”, “friends with benefits” and “one night stand” have become part of modern life.
2. We Rely On Logic Way Too Often
Few people from younger generations can love with all their hearts and overcome the difficulties linked to time and distance.
1. We’re Afraid Of Too Many Things
We are afraid of new relationships, disappointments, emotional wounds, and broken hearts, so we do not allow people to enter our lives.
We build walls around us and sometimes they are too thick and tall to allow us to go out and see life as it is.
Based on materials from Mensxp