5 Early Signs That Your Partner Will Break Your Heart

New relationships are always exciting, intriguing, and passionate. We just have fun with our new partner and try to get to know them better without analyzing each other’s behavior.

However, despite your enthusiasm for your new love, it is crucial to pay attention to what is happening during the honeymoon phase, because it can establish a good foundation for a lasting relationship.

We made a list of 5 mistakes at the beginning of the relationship that may come back to bite you in the future.

At the beginning of a relationship, we want to spend every moment with our new partner – we stop communicating with our old friends and leave our family so that we can always be available for some mutual activities every time our partner calls or texts us.

5. You’re Putting Your Personal Life On Hold

5 Early Signs That Your Partner Will Break Your Heart
© depositphotos.com© depositphotos.com

Why it’s bad: You can start out simply by giving up a few friends, but then move on to a new job, move to another country, or lose touch with your loved ones.

In that case, your partner may lose interest in you because you have simply become a shadow of your old self.

How to fix it: Remember that healthy relationships always involve some degree of independence, so try to divide your free time according to the 50-30-20 rule: no more than 50% with your partner, 30% with your friends and family, and 20% only.

4. You’re Tolerating Bad Behavior

5 Early Signs That Your Partner Will Break Your Heart
© depositphotos.com

Disrespecting your personal space, making insensitive jokes, threatening to break up with you, giving suggestions on how to improve your appearance, cursing, being aggressive, always being late, being stuck on the phone in meetings, ignoring your rejections. .. Many people ignore these red flags because some other aspects of their relationship seem to be good.

Why It’s Bad: If you ignore these warning signs of a toxic future relationship for a long time, you may one day find that you’ve invested a lot of your time and energy on someone who has treated you badly for years.

How to fix it: Don’t be too picky, just politely express your expectations, such as, “I can’t stand someone always being late” or “I wish our meetings were just you and me.” If that doesn’t work, run immediately, and never look back.

3. You’re Bringing Up Your Past Experience

5 Early Signs That Your Partner Will Break Your Heart
© depositphotos.com

It is better to leave some things in the past. This includes your ex-boyfriends, comparing your new partner to them, and your old habits tied to your previous relationships, no matter how things finally ended up with them.

Why it’s bad: Mentioning your ex too often can be very upsetting for your partner. They can start comparing themselves to their previous lovers and it will ruin your relationship.

Also, if you continually judge your partner in front of the people who came before you, it may be a sign that you are setting incredibly high standards.

How to fix it: Your past relationships are important because they have shaped the person you are today and can help you understand what qualities you value in another person.

But you must remember the golden rule: “Never talk about your ex-boyfriends until you feel safe in your current relationship.”

2. You’re Not Talking To Each Other

5 Early Signs That Your Partner Will Break Your Heart
© depositphotos.com© depositphotos.com

“If my girlfriend or boyfriend really loved me, they would know what I need and they would give it to me.” Many people believe that their partners can really read their minds.

Unfortunately, this is not true, and this is one of the most serious mistakes people make in a relationship.

Why it’s bad: Similar to avoiding conflict, lack of communication can lead to feelings of confusion and misunderstandings. And any unresolved negative feelings will turn to resentment over time.

How to fix it: At first, it can be difficult and uncomfortable to talk about your wishes and complaints, but it is essential that you do so.

For a relationship to last, be honest with your partner about what you are looking for.

Don’t forget to listen to their version too: the ideal situation is when you can find the perfect balance between speaking and listening.

1. You’re Idealizing Your Partner

5 Early Signs That Your Partner Will Break Your Heart
© depositphotos.com

We are all human and sometimes we make mistakes. However, some people forget this during the honeymoon period because they still wear their pink glasses and consider their partners to be purely perfect creatures. But they always pay it later.

Why it’s bad: Putting your partner on a pedestal will only set you up for disappointment in the future, when you see that your partner is just a human being, like you.

How to fix it: Avoid having exaggerated expectations of your loved ones. Instead, pay attention to the way they treat other people: your friends, family, waiters at restaurants, etc.

Your new love is probably wearing the same pink glasses that you wear when you are with you, so this will give you some idea of who they really are.

How do you usually deal with problems that arise in your relationship? Share your experience with us in the comments!

  •  
  •  
  •  
  •  
  •  
  •  
Share

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *