Not only will a bad relationship make your life more difficult, but constant fights can also lead to severe depression. Being the one struggling in a relationship can be exhausting and tiring, especially when you don’t know where the two of you are going.
If your relationship seems to go in circles, it is best to think calmly if it is worth saving.
We found 8 signs that can help you decide the fate of your relationship.
7. Your Partner Avoids Spending Time With You
If your partner never seems to find enough time for you but is always willing to spend time with other people, this is a sign that they don’t find you more interesting.
When you really want to be with someone, you find time for that person, there is no other way to avoid it.
6. You Feel Like A Totally Different Person Than You Were Before
When you really love someone, you accept them for as they are. Wanting to change the person you are dating or change your habits is not a healthy sign.
You shouldn’t have to give up your hobbies or interests or feel guilty about doing something your partner just disapproves of for no reason.
If you were happier and freer before and felt very trapped in your relationship, you should probably go.
5. You Are No Longer Each Other’s Go-to Person
Communication is the key to long-lasting relationships and if you find it difficult to open up to your partner, share your secrets with them, and prefer to talk to someone other than your partner, something may be wrong.
4. Most Of Your Conversations Turn Into Fights
And, every time you talk, if you end up arguing over something, it’s not a great sign either.
Expressing your individual thoughts is healthy, but finding out that you are fighting over little things is generally not.
3. Your Heart No Longer Flutters At The Thought Of Your Partner
Of course, as your relationship progresses and you pass the “honeymoon phase,” the initial excitement diminishes. But this does not mean that all the sparks also disappear with time.
If thinking about your partner no longer makes you smile or makes you happy in any way, it’s probably best to let it go.
2. Your Partner Is All “receiving” And Not “giving.”
A relationship requires equal effort on both sides to navigate smoothly. If you constantly do things to repair and strengthen your relationship, but your partner is indifferent, find someone who really likes you.
1. Your Relationship Feels Dry And Boring
Not every day of your love life will come straight out of a movie, but it doesn’t have to be boring either.
From simply cooking together to taking a walk on the beach, there are a hundred little things couples can do to spark joy and excitement.
All it takes is the willingness to make an effort to keep things exciting.
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you had to choose between holding on and letting go? Do you regret your decision?